We all see things in a slightly different way
You better take the nice guy.
Before Dick, (who usually buys Rotary roses) boys in high school occasionally brought me one rose for Valentine's Day. I also thought they were a little too nice. The point is, I recently saw these guys at our 50th yr. reunion. They all have nice wives and stable families. -- But I don't especially feel disappointed I didn't stay with them. I now feel there really isn't any point here!